Friday, June 14, 2013

Jacob Mueller's Wedding at Roloff Farm

We have received some inquiries about Jeremy Roloff's best friend -- Jacob Mueller and his recent wedding. Some friends have sent us pictures from various sites, so we are sharing.

Jacob Mueller is of course the long time friend of the Roloffs who has appeared on the "Little People, Big World" TV show since the first season. He is Jeremy's "BFF" and Amy once referred to him as her "5th kid".

He's also the most controversial friend from the show - he was almost always involved in the various scandals Jeremy Roloff has been in - from the racist and homophobic slurs to the cat tossing  to under-age drinking in the Roloff garage to cruel insults towards fans of the show and mocking. Mueller, like Jeremy, has never apologized, admitted any wrong doing or expressed any regret or remorse for any of his behavior/actions/words. Even friends of Mueller have admitted that Mueller had a habit of saying some "questionable" things that would be offensive to some people.

Jacob Mueller and his then girlfriend - Destiney - are expecting a baby in late July. Destiney has tweeted that the baby's name will be Payton (for all those people who thought Mueller would name his son "Jeremy"). They got married in late May.

We received some inquiries from people wondering if the wedding was held at Roloff Farms and filmed for the show?

In the weeks and months leading up to the wedding, Destiney had tweeted a disappointed "We can't use the barn" and that the wedding venue was uncertain because of that news. Then she tweeted that it was back on.

It was indeed held at Roloff Farms in the field. Matt, Amy and Jeremy tweeted or instagrammed about it in differing detail.

We are told it was small wedding and money was a factor in that.

Amy Roloff tweeted: "A lovely day beautiful wedding so honor it was at farm for Jacob and Destiny. Small intimate special" Someone then asked her if it would be on an upcoming episode. Amy Replied: "not this one. He chose not to and i respect him for that, so understandable"

By the way, Jacob Mueller and/or his wife Destiney are welcome to contact Spiritswander if they have anything they would like to say. In the name of fairness, we always like to make that offer whenever someone is being discussed. However, there has been a long-standing invitation to Jacob Mueller which he has never accepted. We were told a couple of years ago that following our interview with friend Daniel Meichtry, Matt Roloff forbid any friends of the Roloffs from speaking -- even Jeremy and Zach Roloff - at the age of 23 now - still have never spoken for themselves. We're told that's the way Matt wants it so that he can have full control of the family brand and image without risking anyone else messing it up.

Anyhow, here are some various pictures from Jacob and Destiney's wedding that was held on Roloff Farm.







Mr. and Mrs. Mueller




Jacob Mueller and bride Destiney

The ceremony

Zach, Dan, Mueller, Jeremy, Bryan and Jacob's brother

Zach and Tori
Might be of interest to longtime viewers of LPBW - the girl betweent Mueller and Zach is "Dani" - Zach's faux girlfriend which was the plot for the early seasons of the show. She is now married to another friend from the show, Brendon.





Zach and Jeremy


Jeremy and Matt




Molly and Tori

Jacob and his girlfriend Vanessa (hasn't been shown on the tv show yet)





Fans of the early seasons of LPBW might recognize friends - Keith, Scott, Bryan, Dan and Jake













































Congratulations to Jacob and Destiney Mueller and best of luck in the future.

56 comments:

Linda said...

Looks nice. But personally I think some of the people at the wedding are dressed too casually. It's a wedding.

I'm talking about Jacob, Dan, Scott and Tori. Come on. It's a wedding. Dress up!

Christine said...

I still feel sorry for Destiney. It's just too hard to scrape together well wishes for Mueller, a person with such an ugly soul.

Katrina said...

Jacob is into Asian girls? I am in my 30's. I have noticed this with other white boys these days.

When I was young not many white boys found Asian girls attractive. But now they do?

Pam said...

I echo Christine's comments. I'm trying to be nice. Destiney looks very happy and it looked like a nice day.

Roxanne said...

Ahhhhhh. Scott!!!!

Timothy said...

Looks like Jeremy was the best man from where he was standing.

Maggie said...

Mueller probably didn't want it to be an episode because he's ashamed of the situation.

Maggie said...

Molly looks nice. I hope the FBI doesn't come after me for that comment! #overreacting roloffs

Jocelynn said...

Yes, Mueller certainly isn't my favorite person considering all of the mean spirited things he has done, but best wishes to them.

Jocelynn said...

Katrina, I think your comment is ignorant. What does it matter if she's Asian?

Ally said...

Yikes, age and glasses are not doing Jeremy any favors.

The girls and Mueller look good though.

Angel said...

Very pretty. Congratulations to Destiney and Jacob!!

Katrina said...

I am just saying I don't know why Jacob is snubbing white girls. There are plenty of white girls for him to choose from.

Before anyone says anything I am not racist. I am only speaking the truth. I bet the girl's parents don't approve of Jacob. Orientals have very high standards.

Peter said...

Well, they are smart if they went cheap on the wedding.

Be practical. Raising a baby is EXPENSIVE!!! Save the money for that.

Same ol' Jeremy. Always gotta be the center of attention. Interesting wardrobe choice for him and Zach.

Greg said...

Amy lies just like Matt. They most likely didn't want it on the show for obvious reasons.

Erika said...

They have nice property for weddings.

Ashley said...

Wow @Katrina !!

Anyway, yep, glad they had a nice day but I still think Mueller is a jerk.

Helene said...

If Mueller is such a good Roloff friend why didn't they let him have a huge wedding or even chip in to pay for some of it. Matt's always bragging that he has millions of dollars.

dc said...

Pretty

Rap541 said...

Katrina - yes there's plenty of white girls to pick from. There's also plenty of asian girls. If you're not racist, why are you calling it "snubbing white girls" if Jake doesn't choose one?

And this comment:

I am just saying I don't know why Jacob is snubbing white girls. There are plenty of white girls for him to choose from. is racist.

Jocelynn - I hope it works out for them and I think they were wise to not spend a lot of money.

I do think Mueller genuinely doesn't like the show (I kinda wonder if the "we can't use the barn, now we can" stuff was because Mueller refused filming) and frankly I think he's in a crappy spot on this in that if he doesn't allow filming, its because he's ashamed of the whole not being able to keep it in his pants for Jesus, and disrespecting Destiney. But if he does accept filming, even if TLC doesn't cough up a lot of extragant crap, he will called Moochy Mueller for bitching endlessly about filming and then accepting the treats.

Justin said...

The way Jeremy and Jacob was dress made me think of Pee-Wee Herman.

Carrie said...

They're trying to make the best of the situation. Can't fault them for that.

Anne said...

How about it was nice for the Roloffs, if money was not abundant, for the Roloffs to step in and help out by allowing them to use the farm.

The Roloffs are very generous folks and in my opinion, Destiney and Mueller really owe them big time.

Cynthia said...

What were Jeremy and Zach thinking? Seriously?

I really don't think a wedding is a place to where outlandish costumes.

Someone had said before that their friends, most of whom are traditionally conservative Christian were very judgmental.

I wonder if the lack of appropriate attire from some of them is a show that they weren't taking it seriously?

Everyone that seems from Destiney's side of the wedding looks good.

But some of the others? Very disappointing. You should never wear jeans to a wedding and you should wear a tie.

Cynthia said...

At least Jacob Roloffs girlfriend is dressed right for a wedding! More than I can say about Jacob Roloff!

Iris said...

It looked like it was a beautiful day. That's not always a guarantee in Oregon!

Rap541 said...

I'm unconvinced we won't see some of the wedding. I suspect, based on Matt's facebook, that the ceremony wasn't filmed but the lead up was. I could be wrong, I admit... we'll see.

AJ said...

There are more pictures of the wedding on maxwellmonty.com

http://www.maxwellmonty.com/blog/

Justin said...

Rap, I don't think it will be on the show.

Remember, the Roloffs seem very nazi-like with anything associated with the show. They take the wedding couple and their guests hostage. They wouldn't let a guest blog about the wedding of their family/friend because the wedding was going to be used in an episode?

If friends and family of Destiney and Mueller are posting pictures (imagine that, such freedom!) then they probably weren't taken under hostage by the power hungry Roloffs that want to control everyone.

Rap541 said...

Justin - my theory is that we see the lead in to the wedding, the prep, and then its a "we needed to respect their privacy" thing so we don't see the actual ceremony.

Mind you, I base this off Matt's crowing how he was done filming and taking amy on a date night the day of the wedding. I could be wrong.

*and interestingly, I was perusing the blog and funny, Matt, in newsletters sent out to the fans in 2009, talking about how he and Amy were needing to reconnect by having date nights. Funny how they staged a little scene recently on how this was a brand new idea....

Dee said...

Katrina, this is 2013. There are no rules about what races can and cannot date. The fact that you consider being with an individual of one race to be "snubbing" another race blows my mind. Maybe what you're noticing is that today's young people are becoming more and more color blind which is a very good thing. Get with the times.

Katrina said...

If anyone took offense at my comment, then I apologise.

All I was trying to say was that I have noticed a lot more white boys have girlfriends who are asian and I don't understand it because it wasn't that way 15 years ago.

I think you are being too pc if you don't admit that for a boy to be attracted to Asian girls that they need to find different physical features attractive.

Rap541 said...

All I was trying to say was that I have noticed a lot more white boys have girlfriends who are asian and I don't understand it because it wasn't that way 15 years ago.

Perhaps because fifteen years ago, *white* boys got more flack from people like you for having asian girl friends? You clearly don't like a white boy with an asian.... why? Why do you have a problem with it? Be specific.

think you are being too pc if you don't admit that for a boy to be attracted to Asian girls that they need to find different physical features attractive.

A boy, Katrina? Or a *WHITE* boy? Your issue is that a WHITE boy is dating an ASIAN girl. What is the problem? Is she dirty because she's Asian? Are all Asian girls dirty whores? Based on the picture you see of Jake Roloff with this Asian girl, what exactly makes you think she's not good enough for a *WHITE* boy?

Because you're making it very clear, despite your apology, that she is NOT good enough to be with a *WHITE* boy.

Set Abominae said...

Justin:

I'm thinking more Paul from the Wounder Years.

Felina said...

Looks like it was a nice day. Congrulations to them.

Eric said...

Out of the group of 8 guys that used to be on the show, 3 are married before they were 23. 2 are having babies.

Jill said...

The Roloffs have a beautiful place to have a wedding. I'm glad to see that the rain held off.

I don't blame them if they were watching the cost of the wedding. The price of weddings are outrageous these days.

Did you look at the pricing of the photographer they used?

The basic (cheapest) package is $2200. If you want a book made and 4 extra hours of coverage, it is $3600.

If you want it on video, it is $2600 or $3600.

That's probably not out of line with other photographers but unless you're loaded with money I would rather save that money for something else.

Zee to the Z said...

Jill, they most likely got a big discount.

The photographer is a good friend of Dan's brother and knows them all.

He's the guy that has the picture app that Jeremy has been promoting.

Tina said...

What was up with the suspenders and bow ties??

Jake wasn't dressed very well for a wedding. Was his shirt even ironed??? His girlfriend was dressed pretty though.

Tina said...

Adding to my comment...for that matter, the only Roloff that was dressed like they were attending a wedding was Molly!

I know Matt can dress better than that! A sweater??

Jack 'N' Orry said...

Yikes, jeremy looks hideous in that outfit with those gigantic spectacles that wouldn't have looked out of place.....in 1987.

He looks like weird mix of Paul from the Wounder Years Steve Urklel from Family Matters and Beekman from Beekman's World with just a little of Ralphie from A chrismas story sprinkled on top.

M said...

Congratulations to the couple.

Seriously Jer? Nice Steve Urkle impression....

tmlfan said...

I cant wait until this whole "hipster" trend is over, Jeremy just proves how stupid it is

Bob said...

Zach and Jeremy are dressed like Urkel. Jake Roloff is under dressed. And I'm sorry but nothing screams tacky and white trash more than a visibly pregnant girl in a wedding dress. It basically screams "shotgun wedding". And she's wearing "virginal" white no less!

Haley said...

Really Bob? You have no class or respect.

What color of dress would you want the bride to wear????

She looked beautiful and only a classless mean spirited person would make a comment such as yours.

Rap541 said...

Traditionally, brides who didn't keep pure for their husbands were not supposed to wear white. The church Mueller attends and that Destiney was baptized in is not known for condoning sex between unmarried singles. In fact Mueller was supposed to respect Destiney by not whipping off his shorts and nailing her. If we're talking about being classy and showing respect, and we're calling ourselves conservative republicans who chewrish traditional values, well... traditionally its not classy at all to be *pregnant* at your wedding because it shows that you didn't have the thought or control to not spread your legs. And the person who disrespected Destiney by knocking her up was Mueller, who needed his hard penis in her more than he gave a damn about how she would be the pregnant slut catching flack for wearing white when she's clearly is knocked up. Under conservative Christian, republican thought, if Mueller *respected* Destiney he wouldn't have screwed her.

So lets stop with how classy it is for young unmarried Christian girls to have sex - because we all know what conservative Christians really think of a pregnant girl. And lets stop with how we need to re4spect a young man who's sole claim to fame currently is his inability to control his sexual desires. Don't get me wrong - I have no real issues with what the two kids did, but I really doubt the crowd the Muellers run with would demand that someone *not in their circle* be praised as classy and respectful for needing a shotgun wedding.

As for Jeremy and Zach's clothes? I'm told Jeremy likes to dress tgo garner attention. If he's doing it intentionally, so be it, but he's looking for *attention*.... it won't necessarily be "positive attention only*.

Lark said...

Wow! Jeremy managed to keep his shirt on for the entire event. Maybe he is growing up a bit.

Everyone does look nice, though. Like them or not, there's going to be children involved so I wish them the best.

Abigail said...

Jacob Roloffs girlfriend looks classy.

k Has C said...

@ Bob i had to laugh at your post on the white trash etc i think the bride should to been in atleast tattle tail :-/ tan :-)

Anonymous said...

According to destineys twitter, she is getting induced next week. Hopefully everything goes smoothly .

Vanessa said...

I hope you know that I'm only a quarter asian, okay? And different physical features??? The only asian thing about me are my eyes, I'm a normal girl with normal womanly complexions, and don't bag on Jacob if you don't know him personally Other than the show, my parents did like him. Seriously, this was an incredibly offensive comment. Wow. I'm blown away by how clueless and hurtful people can be. You think juuust because I'm asian means that I can't have a nice white man like me?? Who cares about race, God made each and everyone of us equal, and all in his image. So please, realize that.

Cynthia said...

I agree Vanessa.

Vicky said...

They had the baby. Jeremy tweeted about it.

"My Best friend has a son! So I'm an uncle. Un-Technically."

Chicago Wedding Venues said...

Fabulous! I love the theme of venue that they have selected. Outdoor wedding venues are always perfect for a sweet wedding.

Matt from Australia said...

give them a break, the rolloff are cool, if u haven't anything nice to say, then shut up, we are not all perfect, it seems u have all watched the show.
any way Matty is my man, keep going matt.
Matt from Australia..

Arjay said...

To those that commented that some people are dressed too casually...don't forget this wedding took place ON A FARM. Probably best to dress practically for the outdoor location.